A furious kind of love: She married eight times but only her relationship with Richard Burton truly defined her
Even at his peak, Richard Burton seemed an unlikely object of desire. Despite his musical voice, he was just 5ft 9in, with pock-marked skin and a tendency towards belligerence.
When he was drunk which was often he was capable of great cruelty even to his closest friends. When he was sober, he was often maudlin.
Yet he managed to seduce one actress after another from Claire Bloom to Zsa Zsa Gabor. And he made little effort to hide these shortlived and grubby affairs from his wife Sibyl, by whom he had two daughters.
Besotted: Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton's tumultuous romance seemed doomed to failure right from the outset. She said of Burton: 'I knew what I was doing, loving Richard, was wrong, but I couldn't help it. It was a fact I couldn't evade'
By contrast, Eddie Fisher, the husband of Elizabeth Taylor who died last week was a clean-cut pop singer whose foxy features and easy smile had already helped shift eight million records.
A man of genuine sweetness, he adored his young wife, spending days and nights at Elizabeths side when she was hospitalised with pneumonia.
Sadly, his devotion was not reciprocated. Indeed, Elizabeth had known within months that her fourth marriage had been a catastrophic mistake.
Fishers great failing? For all his popularity as a teen idol, he lacked the swaggering machismo of her third husband, Mike Todd, whod died in a plane crash and left her half-crazed with grief.
In public, the couple kept up the pretence that they were happy by putting on passionate displays of af! fection; but in private, Elizabeth often treated Fisher with withering scorn.
As with all her other husbands and there were to be seven in total before she gave up on matrimony she wanted, above all, to get a rise out of him. It wasnt enough that he clearly worshipped her; he needed to prove to her satisfaction that he was a real man.
Rocks and frocks: Elizabeth Taylor flaunts the gigantic diamonds the utterly besotted Burton lavished on her
But instead of engaging in battle, Fisher was unfailingly mild and gentle, which infuriated Elizabeth all the more.
Sometimes, when shed been particularly vicious, the poor man whod left his previous wife, the actress Debbie Reynolds, for her would retire to his bed and draw the blankets over his head. Wimp! shed yell.
For all her aggressive displays of anger, though, Elizabeth was in emotional tumult. Her most recent movie, Butterfield 8, had been a stinker despite winning her an Oscar and she felt adrift without a strong guiding hand.
There was something deeply desperate inside me, she revealed later. My despair became so black that [sometimes] I just couldnt face waking up any more.
Into this cauldron of powerful emotions stepped Burton, then aged 36.
When they were both cast in the epic film Cleopatra, Elizabeth was fully aware of the Welsh actors reputation and had no intention of becoming, as she put it, another notch on his belt.
Burton, for his part, was equally determined that she should. Even before arriving on set in Rome, hed confirmed his reputation as a cad by boasting to colleagues that he was going to have sex with the 29-year-old English-born star.
I just need two days with her, he said. Its guaranteed.
As it turned out, he! was wro ng; it took five. Afterwards, Burton announced to everyone in the Cleopatra make-up van: Gentlemen, last night I screwed Miss Elizabeth Taylor in the back seat of my Cadillac.
As news of the affair spread around the globe, he turned on Elizabeths cuckolded husband with equal crudeness.
One night, Burton showed up unexpectedly at a dinner party at Elizabeths villa. Why dont you just go home to your own wife? shouted Eddie Fisher. Elizabeth is mine.
Burton, whod been drinking and could barely stand, spouted back: Oh yeah? Well, guess what? Theyre both my women.
Then he confronted Elizabeth with the words: Are you my woman? Well, are you? If so, then come over here and stick your tongue down my throat and prove it.
Happier times: For a couple of years, Elizabeth was blissfully happy. Friends also remarked that the couple shared a ribald sense of humour that was rare in Hollywood circles
Elizabeth stood motionless for a moment, her eyes locked on Burton. Then she moved slowly towards him, and shocked all the guests by pressing her lips firmly against his.
Feeling utterly humiliated, Fisher stepped outside. Keep her warm for me, wont you? Burton said to him casually as he left.
To Elizabeth, her lovers callousness was merely further evidence of his irresistible manliness. Yet, in Rome, people took a dim view of the love affair, yelling out homewrecker, whore and unfit mother whenever she appeared in public.
For a star more used to adulation, this was extremely hard to take. Farworse, however, was Burtons sudden decision fuelled by self-loathin! g to re turn to his long-suffering wife.
The next day, Elizabeth dramatically took an overdose of sleeping pills and had to have her stomach pumped. Even her friends were stunned that shed been prepared to leave her four children including a recently adopted little girl without a mother for the sake of a man shed known for only six weeks.
I knew what I was doing, loving Richard, was wrong, said Elizabeth. But I couldnt help it. It was a fact I couldnt evade.
Burton seemed to feel the same: soon enough, they were back together. But, a few months later, during an Easter break at Porto Santo Stefano in 1962, Elizabeth learned about a side of her lover that she hadnt suspected: like her first husband Nicky Hilton, he, too, could be brutally violent under the influence of alcohol.
According to Burton, theyd retreated to their rented room to drink and have wild sex. Somehow he could not remember exactly how or why they began talking about love and death, and Elizabeth announced that she was prepared to kill herself for him.
Here and now, she said, slurring her words, Ill do it, Richard. Thats how deeply I love you.
Together again? There had been speculation Taylor, pictured in 1983, would be buried with her ex-husband Richard Burton in Switzerland
Richard laughed. Good Lord, he said, I left a perfectly good woman to be with a lunatic!
As she reached for her bottle of pills, he swatted the container from her hand and then started pummelling her. He recalled nothing else.
The next morning, when he came to, he was unable to wake Elizabeth. Once again, she was rushed to hospital to have he! r stomac h pumped. Her face was swollen beyond recognition and it took three weeks for the bruises to fade sufficiently for filming to resume.
The final humiliation was that Cleopatra, which opened 632 days after the first scenes were shot, was a critical dud despite being the most expensive movie ever made. Even the scenes between the lovers were strangely lacklustre and flat. When Elizabeth was forced to sit through a screening, she only just made it to a lavatory before vomiting.
With filming over, the spell that Burton had cast over her began to weaken. Soon afterwards, following a huge row, she left a note on his pillow telling him that the affair was over because they were destroying too many lives. He didnt argue; he just quietly slipped out of her life.
As the days turned into weeks, Elizabeth now holed up at a chalet she owned in Switzerland became morbidly sad. Id never seen her like that, said a woman who knew her very well at this time.
Then, one day, Richard called out of the blue, and they arranged to have lunch. For once, Elizabeth realised when they met, he was stone-cold sober.
I love you, but what scares me about you is that I think youre too selfish to be in a real marriage, he told her. Im a selfish b******. Ive always been my own greatest concern, and Ive never been able to abandon that notion, and neither can you, dear.
Elizabeth was stung. But I would do it for you, Richard, she said. And, almost incredibly, that is exactly what she did.
She vowed to make herself available whenever he wanted, to have sex whenever he chose and not to object if he wanted to be with his wife.
So when the Burton/Taylor show moved to England, where they were starring together in a film called The V.I.P.s, he spent weekends with his wife Sybil and their daughters, and returned to Elizabeth at the Dorchester Hotel for the weekdays. He even told more than one reporter that he had no intention of leaving his wife.
It was a lunatic arrang! ement, a nd it couldnt last. Finally, in the spring of 1963, Burton decided his marriage was over.
Over the next couple of years, Elizabeth was blissfully content. And, according to his brother Graham Jenkins, Burton began to fall for her in a way that he hadnt before. Friends also remarked that the couple shared a ribald sense of humour that was rare in Hollywood circles.
Goddess of the silver screen: Taylor playing the title role in one of her most famous films, Cleopatra
Still, by the time they married on March 15, 1964, most of their friends and family were exhausted by the continual ups and downs of their tempestuous romance.
To begin with, Elizabeth all but gave up her career for Burton, though they went on to make several more films together, including the acclaimed Whos Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, in which they starred as a warring husband and wife. Their roles in this movie, it must be said, were not far removed from reality. Even our fights are fun nothing placidly bovine about us, she recalled.
Richard loses his temper with true enjoyment. Its beautiful to watch. Our fights are delightful screaming matches, and Richard is rather like a small atom bomb going off sparks fly, walls shake, floors vibrate.
Others recall their exchanges as rather more venomous. One woman who witnessed an off-set row saw Elizabeth hurl a vase at Burton in his dressing-room. When he ducked, she grabbed a jug and threw that, too, yelling: You b******!
Fifteen minutes later, the Burtons emerged holding hands.
The rocket fuel for those incendiary rows was always alcohol. Burton would have cognac in the morning, vodka in the afternoon and Scotch and vodka a! t night and Elizabeth wasnt lagging far behind. In addition, she was increasingly dependent on painkillers because of back problems.
As the Sixties flew by, their lifestyle became increasingly extravagant, with butlers, maids and Rolls-Royces not to mention the extraordinary jewels, such as the 33.19 carat Krupp diamond, that Burton regularly lavished on his wife.
To pay the bills, they both made a series of mediocre films unworthy of their talent. However, many decades later, Elizabeth Taylor would look back on this time with nostalgia.
Im glad that I knew the wildness, glamour and excitement when I was in my prime: the parties, the yachts, and the private jets and the jewellery. It was a great time to be young, alive and attractive and to have all those goodies.
Iconic: Elizabeth Taylor with Richard Burton in Cleoptra. He was the love of her life and she was to marry him twice
There were growing problems, nonetheless. Richard clearly hated the Hollywood ethos that Elizabeth represented as one of its biggest stars, yet was growing increasingly depressed at his failure to land an Oscar. He also had problems with fame, feeling that people were staring at them as if we are prize animals.
Moreover, the couples drinking was now even more seriously out of control, leading to frequent temper tantrums. Typically, one would demand something of the other, not get it and then throw a fit, maybe a fist, and, at the very least, a glass of liquor. Once, Burton even damaged his wifes eardrum after punching her in the head.
In truth, there were so many levels of psychological chaos at work within Burton that he would have needed to be married to a psychiatrist, not amovie star, to have been understood! fully.
Finally, on July 4, 1973, Elizabeth announced that they had decided to separate. Maybe we loved each other too much I never believed such a thing was possible, she said in an emotional statement that ended: Pray for us.
At the same time, Richard held a press conference in New York, while drinking from a bottle of vodka.
You know, he said, when two very volatile people keep hacking constantly at each other with fierce oratory, and then occasionally engage in a go of it with physical force, well, its like I said: its bound to happen.
Elizabeth defiantly found herself a new boyfriend a handsome used-car salesman called Henry Wynberg and flaunted their affair. Not long after it started, though, she was taken to a Californian hospital with agonising stomach pains and told she might well have cancer.
She immediately called Burton then filming in Italy to tell him tearfully: I dont want to die alone. Please, can I come home?
Within days, Wynberg had been turfed out, Elizabeth had a new 38-carat heart-shaped diamond necklace and the Burton/Taylor melodrama was back on with a vengeance. But not for long: they spent their tenth anniversary fighting and drinking, and soon afterwards decided to divorce.
Elizabeth went back to the long-suffering Wynberg, but still continued to talk to Burton on the phone at least two or three times a week. Then, when the ink was barely dry on the divorce papers, she saw him again at a dinner party in Switzerland.
Elizabeth, never one to hide her feelings, rushed straight into Burtons arms, her face awash with tears. The next day, Wynberg was on a plane back to the United States, clutching a retirement present of $50,000 and a gold watch.
Scorching: Taylor smouldered ! on scree n including in the 1958 classic Cat On A Hot Tin Roof
Richard would later recall: Then, for two days, [Elizabeth and I] circled each other very wary, very polite. On the third day, wehad a fight. Then we knew we were ourselves again.
Two months later, on October 10, 1975, Elizabeth went through her sixth marriage to her fifth husband.
Burton was sober at the time, but his skin had turned a terrible shade of yellow and his health was clearly beginning to fail.
I didnt think then that their second marriage would last ten minutes, recalled their personal bodyguard Brian Haynes. But I could also see that they seemed to need each other. When he was there, she seemed to hate him. When he was away, she couldnt bear to be without him.
At Christmas that year, which they spent in Gstaad, Switzerland, Richard met a willowy blonde English divorcee called Suzy Hunt. She was only 27, but he callously informed his wife that he was going to pursue her.
This decision, while unutterably cruel, may actually have saved his life. Elizabeth was by then drinking enough for the two of them, while Suzy was determined to keep her newlover off the booze and nurse him back tohealth.
Coming face-to-face one day with her rival, Elizabeth told her in a world-weary tone: My dear, youll last only six months with Richard. That I can guarantee.
It wasnt so much a threat as a prediction based on years of experience. She was too exhausted to be mad at a mere girl who didnt have a clue about what she was getting herselfinto with a man old enough to be herfather.
Well, perhaps youre right, said Suzy. But, my, what a six months it shall be.
Elizabeth forced a smile before responding: Oh, certainly, dear for all of us.
Legends: Taylor with Richard Burton on their first wedding day in 1964. He was to be her fifth and sixth husband
When Burton left Switzerland for New York to begin rehearsals for the play Equus, he asked Suzy Hunt to join him. He also toldfriends that now he was sober, he couldntimagine why hed decided to remarryElizabeth.
His wife, for her part, tried to exact revenge by seducing a 37-year-old advertising man called Peter Darmanin at a Swiss disco called The Cave.
Shed sashayed over to him, swaying to the music, and apparently decided, This one will do just fine. Then, without interrupting her dance of seduction, shed kissed him, before taking him home to her lair.
She obviously wasnt over Burton, though, and still spoke to him constantly on the phone. Finally, he summoned her over to see him, and told her bluntly that the marriage was over.
On July 29, 1976, less than ten months after theyd wed for a second time, Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton were granted their second divorce.
I love Richard with every fibre of my soul, she said, before delivering one of the great understatements of her life. But we cant be together. Were too mutually self-destructive.
Her obsession with the Welsh actor would continue, however, through two more marriages to other men. It would lead to heartbreak and personal humiliation.
But never once did she waver from the belief that Dick & Liz had been in her words the greatest goddamned couple of all time.
- Extracted from Elizabeth by J. Randy Taraborrelli, published by Pan at 8.99. 2006 J Randy Taraborrelli. To order a copy for 7.99 (p&p free) call 0845 155 0720.
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