Is that guy my type?
Just discovered you are mad about that guy, but don't know whether there will be enough chemistry?
If yes, do not simply sit on it. Work towards it. For any relationship to materialize it requires effort, making right moves at the right time and most important -- having patience.
So, if you want to know if two of you make a great company then look for the following things:
Common denominator:
Look for a particular thing that both of you are interested in and love to talk about or do together it could be watching a game of cricket or soccer, for that matter adventure trips.
Mind over matter:
It may not make much difference initially. But finding out whether you think equally passionate about matters that concern you both, plays an important role.
Let's talk:
Conversation over a cuppa or a scoop of ice cream usually helps. Ask more about his likes, what he wants to do, is he a book worm, a gadget freak or a happy go lucky guy always willing to share things.
Signs to look for:
Couple of meetings would give a clear picture on whether you can relate yourself to the guy in question. But, if you still are uncertain always look for things that your guy does which you don't quite like, such as:
Does he interrupt you often while you think you are talking something interesting?
Does he ask you about which beverage you like have in a restaurant or tells you what to order according to his choice?
Does he talk too much about himself and only himself?
If, the answer to all the three questions is yes, well, you may need to give a serious thought to the ongoing equation.
If yes, do not simply sit on it. Work towards it. For any relationship to materialize it requires effort, making right moves at the right time and most important -- having patience.
So, if you want to know if two of you make a great company then look for the following things:
Common denominator:
Look for a particular thing that both of you are interested in and love to talk about or do together it could be watching a game of cricket or soccer, for that matter adventure trips.
Mind over matter:
It may not make much difference initially. But finding out whether you think equally passionate about matters that concern you both, plays an important role.
Let's talk:
Conversation over a cuppa or a scoop of ice cream usually helps. Ask more about his likes, what he wants to do, is he a book worm, a gadget freak or a happy go lucky guy always willing to share things.
Signs to look for:
Couple of meetings would give a clear picture on whether you can relate yourself to the guy in question. But, if you still are uncertain always look for things that your guy does which you don't quite like, such as:
Does he interrupt you often while you think you are talking something interesting?
Does he ask you about which beverage you like have in a restaurant or tells you what to order according to his choice?
Does he talk too much about himself and only himself?
If, the answer to all the three questions is yes, well, you may need to give a serious thought to the ongoing equation.
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